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Purpose of the Intervention Program for Men and Fathers (IPMF) The IPMF attempts to examine how men can build on their strengths to live a non-violent life. The primary goal of IPMF is to end violence against men, women, and children. The program holds men completely responsible for their behavior. The program educates men about choosing and developing non-violent behaviors. The program asks participants to stand back and look at the impact of their actions on themselves, their partner, their children, and their community in order to change. For most people, challenging beliefs that support abusive behaviors, and changing abusive behaviors is a worthwhile, life-long process. In some instances men can require further intervention than what the IPMF is able to offer. The IPMF provides men with information and support to change their behavior. We believe that given the right opportunity and willingness men can and will change. How to Participate Men can be court ordered through a civil Order for Protection (OFP), a criminal conviction, referred by child protection, and voluntary self-referral. To enter the program you must contact the IPMF staff in a timely manner and arrange for an intake interview. You will then participate in thirty two sessions. Group Content The initial twenty weeks cover the following topics: 1. Non-Violence 2. Non-Threatening Behavior 3. Respect 4. Support and Trust 5. Accountability and Honesty 6. Sexual Respect 7. Partnership 8. Negotiation and Fairness 9. Responsible Parenting The twelve fathering sessions cover the following topics: 1. Examining Men’s Own Childhood Experiences with their Father 2. The Impact of Battering by Men on Children 3. Becoming a More Nurturing, Child-Centered Father 4. Examining How Men Can Be Respectful, Non-Abusive, and More Supportive of Their Children’s Mother and of the Mother-Child Relationship Fees The cost is determined on a sliding-fee scale. Schedule Groups meet at the following places and times: Deer River Grand Rapids Monday evenings 6:00pm - 8:00pm Zion Lutheran Church Thursday mornings 10:00 - 12:00 p.m. - Zion Lutheran Church Thursday evenings 6:00 - 8:00 p.m. - Zion Lutheran Church |